I’ve been really into buying statement jeans lately because it’s so darn easy to pair with simple tops or jerseys and jeans just last so much longer anyway. To be honest, when my mom started adding her own bling and sequence to her jeans and ‘bedazzling’ it, I laughed and she said it’s going to become fashion. What do you know – she was actually right!
I never thought I’d be buying jeans with a massive sequence flamingo on it but here I am. To be honest, I feel a belt would have topped this look off perfectly looking back on the images now. Also, the oversized sleeves have been making WAAAVVES lately and it’s literally everywhere but I’m not complaining. It makes a simple jersey like this one look so much more fashionable and effortless. This cropped one is especially amazing because you can wear a reasonably baggy jeans with it and it will still be flattering because it bares a little midriff. I would recommend that you get yourself a cropped jersey with oversized or bell sleeves because it makes any outfit look amazing and this trend isn’t going anywhere any time soon.
There’s also a very laid-back spirit associated anything that is oversized and I TRULY believe that only good vibes are spread when wearing oversized clothes because who can truly be angry when you’re comfortable AF and fashionable at the same time? – certainly not me. I wish that I could go fully baggy all the time but to be honest, with my body type, I don’t really feel it flatters me sometimes but when it does, best believe I’ll wear that item of clothing until its last thread!
If you haven’t already noticed, I’ve really been digging the colour pink lately but a very specific shade of pink. I don’t really like bright pink or neon pink but rather a subtle shade of pastel pink. I feel it is a lot more versatile and can be layered beautifully especially with the colder months coming up. Pink can also be quite a tricky colour to pull off because you can very well end up looking like a princess or pack of babaloo bubblegum. With various shades of pastel pink dominating the runway, even if you hated the colour before, you will find that it will slowly start making its way into your wardrobe.
I’ve decided to keep this look quite pastel. If you’re ever in doubt on how to pair pink, I usually pair it with black or pastel. Sometimes it’s nice to pair a texture or shade that you wouldn’t usually associate with that shade. i.e. a pleather/leather jacket with shades of pastel or denim as I have done in the images.
If you’re still feeling too girly by wearing pink then try adding a few menswear accents. You could try wearing a dusty pink dress with a fitted blazer and accessories just to harden the look up a bit. You need to choose a shade that suits your skin tone and always make sure that the cut also flatters your specific body shape.
There’s always that awkward phase where Cape Town actually doesn’t know what it wants to be so we are forced to dress accordingly but it doesn’t mean we have to be a hot mess while doing so. I have really been loving oversized jerseys lately and have collected so many different styles over the past few weeks. In fact, I have been loving oversized in general whether it be tees or pants, it’s just been working for me! You could also pair this jersey with an embellished skirt or pair of jeans and it would give off that casually-chic vibe because we never want to seem like we’re trying TOO hard right? If the jersey is long enough, you could wear it as a dress on its own. The possibilities are truly endless!
Also can we just talk about how super long these wedges makes my legs look? For me, when I buy a shoe, I always see if they flatter my legs first and if they don’t then it’s a no from me. It’s very hard for me to find a nice shoe and I’m super fussy because if they come too high past my ankle then my legs look really short so I find that not only does this wedge have a thick platform which gives me extra height but I can adjust just how high or low I want the shoe to be. Always make sure that your shoe is the right fit for your body type!
By now you guys obviously know that this skirt is LIFE! I’ve worn it so many times already in so many different ways and I’ll keep wearing it for as long as I can. Both the skirt and the jersey are both amazing transitional pieces and to be honest, who doesn’t want to get their moneys worth when they are buying clothes?
About this Location
This is honestly the best location ever to take pictures! There are so many different corners with so much character and the food is amazing too. The lighting is perfect for both phones and cameras. It took me a while to spot good locations but I feel that as a blogger, it’s important to know where all the good spots are so I really don’t mind sharing it with you guys.
Zara jersey | River Island skirt | Steve Madden shoes
Yep you guessed it, I am obsessing over my Miu Miu sunnies! I love that they are almost dome-shaped and protrude outward – I think it’s quite unusual. Also, can we take a second to say goodbye to the warmer days and cute outfits like this – Although I will try and find a way to recreate it in the colder seasons. Would you guys wanna see that?
All of you guys have been asking if I am growing my hair and YES I AM! However, I don’t want to grow it too long, maybe just a bob so it’s safe to say that my hair is at that awkward ass length now but I’m trying to find a way to make it work. If you follow me on Instagram then you would have seen this silver number a few times. I just love that it’s so so dynamic and you can literally wear it on its own or switch up the tees underneath. Maybe for Winter, I could pair it up with a poler-neck underneath and a pair of stockings, who knows, we shall see!
I’m so sorry that this post is a bit shorter than usual. I wasn’t going to post today but then decided to surprise you guys!
Zara dress and tee | Steve Madden boots | Miu Miu sunnies
I get that Monday is most peoples worst day but for me, it is actually the one day I look forward to. It just represents a new start and a clean slate. For some, we might be starting a diet or fitness plan whilst for others, we might be starting that new job. So here are three reasons why I LOVE Monday and how you could love it too.
Your motivation starts all over again – As the week goes on, we kind of lose motivation along the way but we always say, ‘I’ll start on Monday’.
You gain a clear perspective and set goals.
There’s no point in complaining. If you are going to associate Monday with a negative perception then you are setting the tone for the rest of the week.
Have you ever felt like your dreams were TOO big? Yea, I know the feeling. Honestly, If you told me a year ago that I would be where I am today then I would have never believed you. However, if you were to tell me where I might be in a year from now, then I might just believe you. What changed? Seeing is believing – that’s what. I had to witness what I was truly capable of to say that I can accomplish ANYTHING I put my mind to and the same applies to you.
So fitting to this post, I thought I would list some of the things that I NEVER thought I could accomplish but I did and PLEEEASE feel free to do the same by commenting on this post. I’d love for us all to inspire each other and look to each other for some source of motivation because I am sure there are some of us that just need a little push in the right direction.
I never thought I could run marathons.
I never thought I could do public speaking.
I never thought I would be good at makeup.
I never thought I would move out of my moms house so young and be independent.
I never thought I would be as dedicated to gym and fitness as I currently am.
I never thought I would be in magazines.
I never thought I could have the courage to break up with a toxic friend.
I never thought I would still be alive after pranking my mom so much! haha
Topshop top & pants | Steve Madden heels | Ray-Ban sunnies
When I started blogging, I never ever thought that I would do a blog post in such a ‘simple’ outfit. I mean why bother doing a full look post in white jeans and a white top? I think that as time goes on, I’m learning to be more comfortable in front of you guys and in this industry, authenticity is key. I know that there are many young girls out there that really want to start their own blogs but feel this pressure to always have to buy new clothes when this isn’t the case. I think it’s important to throw your own interpretation on things because there are many girls that are in the same boat that can’t maybe afford to buy new clothes every single week for an ootd. To be honest, all you really need is a cool location and you can literally wear what you feel comfortable in. You really don’t have to break your pocket.
I could lie and say that I am dressed up every single day but for those of you who have met me, I’m quite chilled most of the time or in an outfit like this one. What I am trying to say is that don’t feel the need to impress anyone if you truly don’t feel comfortable in what you are wearing. I love that this outfit is super functional yet stylish at the same time.
Topshop jacket & jeans | Woolies top | Adidas sneakers
There’s something about grey walls that ignites just about every bloggers senses. We can’t walk past one without taking a photo in front of it and I have to admit that this one sexy grey wall!
As you can see, I chose to be a bit bold with this look in choosing to pair 3 statement pieces together and I think it works quite well don’t you think? Usually, I would say just focus on 1 statement piece and work from there but I was feeling quite adventurous on this particular day. I love the fact that this skirt is asymmetrical as it flatters my frame quite well and I love the beaded detail too. The tiger print top is also one heck of a statement piece in that you can’t even wear a bra with it but it holds quite well surprisingly. I love that the sleeves are a bit longer than a regular tee and the rest was history.
We all know what introverts and extroverts are but what if you lie somewhere in between? My whole life, I’ve never identified myself as either an introvert or an extrovert. I’ve seen so many articles recently about ambiverts so I am in no way claiming that this research is my own but I would like to share what I came across because I am sure there is more out there like me or ‘us’.
Let me begin by describing what an ambivert is according to these articles that I have read. The simplest way to explain it is someone that is able to balance both introvert and extrovert features in their personality but for me, I feel that I am actually an introvert that is able to socialise like an extrovert. I know this because I sometimes get anxiety before- hand if I know that I am going to be surrounded by groups of people but once I am in the situation, I can’t help but end up being the life of the party and when I get home, I feel physically drained and wonder if people genuinely enjoyed my company. When I am caught off guard, like either meeting one of you guys or asked to give a speech without having been prepared, I get so very shy because I haven’t mentally prepared myself for it.
Here are some facts about ambiverts that I can relate to and maybe you can too. If you can then you might be one too
I am more comfortable meeting new people when I am with one of my friends because it provides safe harbour.
I find that being an ambivert, I am able to connect with more people be it introverts and extroverts because my personality doesn’t lean towards one direction.
I don’t like small talk. I feel that it can be a bit insincere so I would rather avoid it. This is why when I meet you guys, I always ask how you are, how old you are and so on because I really do want to know.
I love my own company. I honestly can spend an entire weekend all by myself and be 100% content.
FOMO rarely exists.
I mostly don’t think before I speak and can hurt feelings without even knowing it
I am so intuitive. I often judge the outcome of a situation so that I can be super prepared before-hand.
I love asking for help but hardly like to be corrected.
Although it may not seem like it, I am always observing my surroundings.
I love attention but hate being the centre of it.
I always get an awkward anxiety before initiating conversation but once I am in it, I can go on and on.
Please let me know if you can relate to any of these points, I would love to know!
Two of my favourite fabrics have finally joined forces to create sheer beauty. When I saw this skirt in the store, it just had to be mine. It’s almost as if I fell in love for the first time. Have you ever felt that way over an item of clothing or is that just me? I’m sure MANY ladies can relate right now though. Although it can’t really be worn for any occasion, it’s just one of those pieces I think I would like to keep for my little girl one day and say, ‘look how fashionable your mom was!’.
I decided to pair it with this Metalica shirt to stay true to the skirts rocker-edge and as some of you might have noticed, I’ve been wearing this shirt pretty much all the time. I topped it all off with a classic pair of mules to add some sort of elegance to the look in its entirety. I will admit that this look made me feel like a bit of a badass because I think it takes some level of confidence to wear a tule skirt, let alone over a denim skirt so I was pretty proud of myself. What do you guys think?